{"id":1628,"date":"2025-06-23T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-06-23T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vervebooks.co.uk\/blog\/?p=1628"},"modified":"2025-06-24T12:40:36","modified_gmt":"2025-06-24T11:40:36","slug":"do-these-stilettos-make-my-debut-romance-novel-look-like-an-agent-of-the-patriarchy-and-other-pressing-questions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vervebooks.co.uk\/blog\/do-these-stilettos-make-my-debut-romance-novel-look-like-an-agent-of-the-patriarchy-and-other-pressing-questions\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Do These Stilettos Make My Debut Romance Novel Look Like an Agent of the Patriarchy?&#8217; and Other Pressing Questions"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If you\u2019ve ever plucked your eyebrows then wondered if it was anti-feminist, welcome to my spirit canoe. It is a place of wanting cake and eating it off a strange cultural plate, where we get tangled in reclaiming our power and losing it in the same stroke. Beauty is our weapon, for example \u2013 but not if the beauty standard was set by men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Flip sides lurk everywhere. As a Romance writer and huge fan of the genre, I think about this constantly with books. The Romance category booms alongside a news cycle that blares misogyny; men disappoint us in the real world, so we craft wish-fulfillment remodels of them and take comfort in that fiction. But what if the Happily Ever After we\u2019re swooning over reinforces regressive ideas?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-nowrap is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"666\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/vervebooks.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/TDV-cover-666x1024-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1524\" srcset=\"https:\/\/vervebooks.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/TDV-cover-666x1024-1.jpg 666w, https:\/\/vervebooks.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/TDV-cover-666x1024-1-480x738.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 666px, 100vw\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">This rabbit hole is exhausting, and it\u2019s like hey \u2013 I just want to read my book. But this is also the quagmire I kept in mind as I was drafting <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.waterstones.com\/book\/the-dirty-version\/turner-gable-kahn\/9780857309112\"><strong>The Dirty Version<\/strong><\/a><\/em>, my debut Contemporary Romance. I kept questioning whether each of my creative choices was feminist. I had the most fun doing this in crafting Caleb, a Hollywood Intimacy Coordinator and the novel\u2019s leading man.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Is it anti-feminist to admit that? Is loving Caleb an inverted trap? I wanted his <em>good-<\/em>ness to be extremely hot \u2013 for it to make him hotter than a Bad Boy. For his thoughtfulness to make him dreamy. A beach read is not political, and yet.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">I mean, he\u2019s also very handsome. To keep things highbrow, I put a different test to when he took off his clothes. The Intimacy Coordinator I interviewed as background for Caleb\u2019s character said he often begins his work by asking how a sex scene furthers a project\u2019s plot \u2013 so I did the same thing, and the process became meta. It helped me think about the novel as foreplay. Just like the burlesque show Caleb takes Tash to in <em>The Dirty Version<\/em> \u2013 the best part is The Tease.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Tash, <em>The Dirty Version<\/em>\u2019s main character and the indie author of the feminist dystopia Caleb is hired to help adapt, is easier to explain. She\u2019s caught in the dissonance of female existence I mentioned earlier. It has turned her angry. She is an homage to my girlfriends, and in the novel, she is buoyed by her Sisterhood. She also secretly wants to believe in good men, in a world where it can be difficult to have faith.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">And yes, Tash wears stilettos. She probably plucks her eyebrows and puts on lingerie \u2013 then ponders whether it\u2019s feminist. She probably spins out on contradiction, just like a reader who\u2019s finished an amazing romance novel and has to reluctantly re-engage with reality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Luckily for us, though, there is always another book waiting to sweep us away. Here are some of my personal favorites:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.waterstones.com\/book\/everythings-fine\/cecilia-rabess\/9781529083194\"><em>Everything\u2019s Fine<\/em> by Cecilia Rabess<\/a><\/strong> \u2013 A sharp, sexy, and provocative debut workplace romance that questions whether you can love someone while hating their politics \u2013 equal parts desperate attraction and cultural commentary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.waterstones.com\/book\/we-could-be-so-good\/cat-sebastian\/9780008623616\"><em>We Could Be So Good<\/em> by Cat Sebastian<\/a><\/strong> \u2013 Another workplace romance! I guess I have a type. This one is tender and set gorgeously in 1950s New York, full of longing, wit, and chosen family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.waterstones.com\/book\/romantic-comedy\/curtis-sittenfeld\/9781804991916\"><em>Romantic Comedy<\/em> by Curtis Sittenfeld<\/a><\/strong> \u2013 A brainy, inside-Hollywood slow burn between a late-night sketch writer and a pop star, with biting gender politics and real heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.waterstones.com\/book\/less-than-zero\/bret-easton-ellis\/9781035012756\"><em>Less<\/em> by Andrew Sean Greer<\/a><\/strong> \u2013 Technically a break-up book, but really a sweeping, comic love story in disguise \u2013 with a Pulitzer and a passport full of longing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"512\" src=\"https:\/\/vervebooks.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Untitled-design-33-1024x512.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1630\" srcset=\"https:\/\/vervebooks.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Untitled-design-33-980x490.png 980w, https:\/\/vervebooks.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Untitled-design-33-480x240.png 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) 1024px, 100vw\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Do-This-Me-Eliza-Kennedy\/dp\/1101907215\/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0\"><em>Do This For Me<\/em> by Eliza Kennedy<\/a><\/strong> \u2013 A messy, ferocious, laugh-out-loud novel about a high-powered lawyer unraveling after her husband\u2019s betrayal \u2013 and deciding whether revenge or reinvention is the better look.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.waterstones.com\/book\/such-a-fun-age\/kiley-reid\/9781526612168\"><strong><em>Such a Fun Age<\/em> by Kiley Reid<\/strong> <\/a>\u2013 A compulsively readable debut about transactional relationships, race, and performative allyship \u2013 with just enough romance to keep your heart in it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.waterstones.com\/book\/the-rachel-incident\/caroline-odonoghue\/9780349013565\"><em>The Rachel Incident<\/em> by Caroline O\u2019Donoghue<\/a><\/strong> \u2013 A sharp coming-of-age novel about friendship, betrayal, and falling in love with the wrong people \u2013 told with hilarious specificity and aching insight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.waterstones.com\/book\/elsewhere\/gabrielle-zevin\/9781526675835\"><em>Elsewhere<\/em> by Gabrielle Zevin<\/a><\/strong> \u2013 A surreal and beautiful story set in the afterlife, where love still lingers and growing up doesn\u2019t end at death. Romantic, strange, and unforgettable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.waterstones.com\/book\/thank-you-for-listening\/julia-whelan\/9780063095564\"><em>Thank You for Listening<\/em> by Julia Whelan<\/a><\/strong> \u2013 A deeply moving, meta-romance about two audiobook narrators falling for each other \u2013 smart, sexy, and saturated with love for the genre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.waterstones.com\/book\/early-morning-riser\/katherine-heiny\/9780008395131\"><em>Early Morning Riser<\/em> by Katherine Heiny<\/a><\/strong> \u2013 A gentle and quietly brilliant novel about small-town life, chosen family, and a love that evolves past its fairy tale expectations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.waterstones.com\/book\/the-road-trip\/beth-oleary\/9781529409093\"><em>The Road Trip<\/em> by Beth O\u2019Leary<\/a><\/strong> \u2013 An aching, joyful, road trip reunion romance between two exes forced back into close quarters, with all the messy feelings and hope you\u2019d expect from a second-chance story done right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The Dirty Version<em> by Turner Gable Kahn will be out on June 26th in paperback and eBook. Pre-order <a href=\"https:\/\/geni.us\/dirtyversion\">here<\/a>.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019ve ever plucked your eyebrows then wondered if it was anti-feminist, welcome to my spirit canoe. It is a place of wanting cake and eating it off a strange cultural plate, where we get tangled in reclaiming our power and losing it in the same stroke. 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